Trans “women” are men. Creepy, misogynistic men who claim womanhood is whatever their fetish tells them it is. Men who send threats to women, men who demand access to womens bodies and time and space. Men who groom and abuse children and teens and impressionable young adults. Men who use their power to further harass and marginalise women.
You have a choice here to prioritise women, or stroke male egos. The latter is what you go for – happy to exclude many actual women – while justifying sucking up to men as “inclusion”. They have no place in any genuine women’s party at all.